Video video games are an escapist medium. That is what everybody at all times says. And it is true! They permit us to be whoever or no matter we wish, irrespective of the realm of risk. Wizards, monsters, survivors within the post-apocalypse, anthropomorphic marsupials named Crash – we may be something. We are able to escape our day-to-day routines and issues, and we will stay a life past our wildest expectations.
In 2020, that is maybe important. Between COVID-19, election season, and a relentless barrage of dangerous information, actuality is bleak. Exacerbating the whole lot is the truth that, you may’t actually depart your own home except you may assist it, as a result of threat of spreading or catching the virus. There has maybe by no means been a greater time in trendy historical past to wish to escape into the fantasy worlds of video video games to simply give ourselves a break from all of it.
However regardless of all of this, I discover myself wanting to attract my time in quarantine out, to make time go slower. I’m nonetheless escaping in a manner, however not within the methods I used to. Relatively than cover in a make-believe world on my own, I wish to inhabit worlds with different folks, I wish to stay in these moments and conversations.
Earlier than this yr, earlier than the pandemic, I hardly ever performed multiplayer video games. Traditionally, single-player video games have at all times been extra my model. I really like video games that I can lose hours or days to, isolating myself from the world. Hell, I do not even like different folks being in the identical room as me after I’m enjoying a sport. I do not need something getting in the best way of my time in a digital world and with its story. That is the way it’s at all times been for me, till now.
When the coronavirus began hitting the USA laborious earlier this yr, my life essentially modified inside days. I am a double most cancers survivor, and due to this I am immunocompromised. On high of that, I’ve respiratory points. I’m firmly within the at-risk camp for COVID-19. Extra bluntly: If I have been to catch the virus, that’d principally be it for me. When instances first began sweeping the nation, I instantly needed to isolate myself from the remainder of the world, and I continued doing in order issues obtained worse. Outdoors of the folks I stay with, I can not see any buddies or household. I can not even go down the road to get a espresso. In fact, this is not distinctive to me; anybody clever additionally is not going round seeing folks like they used to. However the restrictions positioned on somebody in my camp are harsh. I by no means thought I might get F.O.M.O. from listening to somebody goes to the grocery retailer. Bodily, I’ve by no means been extra alone. Socially, I don’t assume I’ve ever been higher.

Precise photograph of me and my boys entering into at The Boneyard in Warzone
Each single day, certainly one of 4 folks texts me saying some variation of the identical factor. “It is time to get the W.” As soon as that textual content is available in, myself and everybody else in my group chat assembles. It is time to hang around. It is time to see my buddies … form of. I do not truly see them; I solely see their avatars in Call of Duty: Warzone, the stand-alone battle royale mode for Name of Responsibility: Fashionable Warfare. However I hear them, and that is vital. That is good. It is what I wait all day for. I am ready for it proper now, to be trustworthy. If I can not go over to their homes or see them in individual, then dropping into Verdansk and taking pictures folks will (and does) greater than suffice.
I do not blame anybody for attempting to flee from the whole lot happening proper now. How might you? This sucks, man! However for me, I discover I now not wish to escape my day-to-day. When my quarantine first began, I couldn’t look forward to a day to be over. I’d sleep in, take naps all through the day, and go to mattress early. I performed single participant video games that I knew would take me a ton of time to finish. I put 124 hours and 22 minutes into Persona 5 Royal in lower than two months simply attempting to make my days disappear. It was a catastrophe on my psychological well being.
Now, I don’t do this a lot. I’m nonetheless attempting to flee the bleakness of the world round me, however not in a manner the place I would like it to all disappear. Once I lastly get the possibility to speak to my buddies, I wish to be in these moments as a result of I wish to hear about what they’re as much as, to speak as finest we will like issues are regular, to keep up these relationships regardless of the time and distance. And it’s working! I’ve by no means felt nearer to my buddies I play Warzone with, a few of whom I’ve identified for greater than 15 years, which is a wild factor to consider. It’s additionally good to simply discuss to folks about how a lot the whole lot sucks proper now. Distress loves firm.

The boys having a pleasant night collectively in Verdansk.
It’s kind of of a romantic view of friendship throughout a pandemic, but it surely’s additionally one thing to carry on to. And that feels actually vital proper now. Enjoying Warzone, racking up kills, going for the W (pronounced right here as “dub,” that means “win”), none of that’s actually all that vital to me. If circumstances have been totally different, I do not assume I might even play Warzone. It’s tremendous not for me. It is macho, aggressive, and online-only. It encourages gamers to be hostile and violent, to shoot first and assume second. It is the antithesis to the sorts of video games I play. I ought to hate Warzone, but it surely’s my favourite sport in years. It simply has little or no — if something, actually — to do with the sport itself. It has the whole lot to do with the folks I play that sport with. At any time when somebody has to sign off, I genuinely get upset.
I am nonetheless maintaining with the large releases of the yr. I am working via Mafia: Definitive Version proper now (I very a lot agree with Jeff Cork’s review) and I completely can not look forward to Yakuza: Like A Dragon to launch in November. I am getting excited for the brand new consoles to come back out, too. I am nonetheless dipping into fantasy worlds, nonetheless gaming the best way I used to. What’s modified, although, is the first motive I come to video video games lately. Within the midst of what is perhaps the worst interval of my lifetime in historical past, I now not wish to eat myself in a faux actuality free from my very own, to make time go as quick as potential. I would like to pay attention to the time I’ve in Warzone. I do not wish to escape my actuality proper now, as a result of it is all I’ve.